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Is It Good to be Totally Spontaneous and Honest All the Time?
This is a dangerous myth that many people still believe. Some people use this discredited assumption as justification to communicate in ways that hurt or diminish others.
Studies demonstrate that expressing all your anger spontaneously actually causes it to escalate and does nothing to help. The best advice is to first, identify what triggers your anger. Then when a triggering situation presents itself, have a good talk with yourself to keep it from tipping you over the edge.
Dr Shery is in Cary, IL, near Algonquin, Crystal Lake, Marengo, Woodstock and Lake-in-the-Hills. He provides day and evening appts and accepts all insurance. Call 1 847 516 0899 or learn more at: http://www.carypsychology.com














