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°¡Àå Áß¿äÇÑ °³Ã¼ °³¼± ¾ÆÀ̵ð¾î´Â Áö½ÄÀ» ´ç½ÅÀÇ Áö·ÂÀÇ Àå¾ÇÇϱâ À§ÇÏ¿© ÃëµæÇϱâ À§ÇÑ °ÍÀÌ´Ù. This is actually a lot easier than you might think, if you think about it for our thoughts are the base of our intellects. We are who and what we are in existence because of our thoughts and therefore every improvement in our thoughts must by definition improve our lives. The principle of attraction states that we attract into our lives the experiences that harmonize with our weighty thoughts.

In order to acquire self betterment knowledge how to take control of your thoughts requires an understanding of what a thought actually is. Thinking is nothing but a process of asking and answering questions in our intellects. The easiest way to practice this self improvement idea is to begin asking ourselves better questions. Questions like ¡°why cant I do this? or ¡°why does this always happen to me?¡± will hardly create empowering thoughts for your intellect will give you answers to these questions based on your memory.

Teaching your intellect to ask questions like ¡°how can I do this?¡± will create self worth answers that keeps your intellect concentrated on what you ask of it. Questions are the self talk control mechanism of your mental concentration. You can make yourself feel good or bad, angry or sad by just concentrating your intellect.

The way you feel at any point in time is not based on true but on your self image interpretation of true by what you choose to concentrate on. Recall that there is always something wrong in your existence and in the world, BUT at the same time there is always something that is good and right. Make the conscious self repair decision to direct your concentration on what¡¯s right and good and joyful. Just ask yourself ¡°what¡¯s precious in my existence right now?¡± and immediately your concentration will be shifted and you are in control of your consciousness.

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  1. Val Says:

    I¡¯d like to add:

    ¡°The secret of success is constancy of purpose.¡±

    Benjamin Disraeli

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