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April 4th, 2007 at 1:42 pm
this is an important post. we must examine how we view problems.
problems are bound to occur. they are part of life. however, you have the chance to rate your problems. if you give your problem a 10 you better get going. so even though the problems is great that gives you the focus and desire to work on that problem.